So I agreed to go to my friends wedding a few months back, and now I'm not sure I really want to go anymore.  But, I have my reasons, and they're good! 
1)  Wedding's in Eugene, in the evening, Rob and I don't have a place to stay, so we'd have to drive home in the middle of the night, all they way back to Wilsonville - ew. 
2)  I don't have anything to wear - well, actually I do, but it's a white skirt and I can't feel okay with wearing that to a wedding, even though my mom says it's okay. 
3)  It's the day after my birthday, hangover anyone?
4)  I don't know anybody else who's going.

So, I'm thinking about emailing the bride to cancel and sending my wedding present anyway.  Is that okay?  Or should I just go anyway, and deal with it?

I'm 22 today, yay!